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QUOTE
The first duty of love
is to listen.
Paul Tillich
I know I am but summer
to your heart, and not the
full four seasons of the year.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
OTHER ARCHETYPES
Romeo and Juliet, Adam and Eve,
Elizabeth Taylor and
Richard Burton,
Eros and Psyche.
STONE
Rose Quartz
REVERSED
MEANING
When the Lovers card is reversed you may not be seeing
this person or event totally clear. You may be fascinated with
an ideal picture that you have in your mind. If you cannot see
the shadow in this situation or person, you are probably not
completely clear of what the upcoming lessons might be for you.
Cupid the God, is a trickster and some of his arrows sometimes
miss the mark and cause havoc with humanity. Check to see if
this love is an illusion or if it is a lesson to show you parts
of yourself that are not yet integrated into your consciousness.
Look to see where you might be lying to yourself to justify
the choice you have made. Look to see what this person or situation
in your life might be reflecting back to you. It might be an
unhealed aspect trying to get your attention and love. When
the Lovers card is reversed it is important to really look at
what you are drawing into your life at this time. This card
reversed is a warning of potential infatuation rather than true
love. Yet love can grow out of this position by your willingness
to accept the person or situation with all their faults and
problems in an honest and communicative way. When this card
is reversed it is time to sit down and ask questions and find
out the truth of where this pattern is going. You might be afraid
to ask the questions because you don’t really want to
know the answers. You might be choosing to hide your head in
the sand. When this card is reversed, it is also important to
look to see if everyone is being faithful in the relationship.
Reversed this card can indicate that there is a lie in the space
and you need to find out what everyone’s intentions are.
QUESTIONS TO ASK
Am I in love or in infatuation?
Has spirit magically put us together to learn something?
How is this person like an unhealed aspect within me?
How is this love bringing me to become my highest spiritual
potential?
Am I becoming too idealistic?
Am I not seeing this person for who they really are?
Can I love this person even if they are not perfect?
Can I love this person if they don’t actually fit all
my internal pictures?
Can I love this person if they are not what they are presenting
to me at this time?
Am I in love if I want to change this person?
THE PATH
Love
challenges you to open in ways that you didn’t know were
possible. Falling in love is easy. Staying in love is a great
challenge. Learning to love is the desire to find wholeness
through opposition. Opposites attract in the dance of love and
intimacy. You desire to find out if you are loveable through
learning to love aspects in others that reflect your shadow.
Remember if you are drawn to someone, they are reflecting something
to you that you are unable to see at this moment. In learning
to love them you are learning to love that fragmented aspect
within you. Bring that concept into your conscious awareness
and allow the love to heal lost parts within..
YES-NO POSITION
Yes, your innocent child within wants to reach out
with his or her love. It is never good to stifle a child’s
unconditional love. You are yearning to open to a deeper emotional
experience of life.
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ANGELS
Angel of Innocent Love
Angel of Attraction
Angel of Infatuation.
CHRISTIAN ARCHETYPE
The love of Jesus to all his disciples and followers.
The love his followers had for him to be the savior of humanity
and the king of Israel.
MOVIE ARCHETYPES
Forest Gump: The innocent love that Forest felt
when he was a child for his childhood sweet heart, Jenny.
Wizard of Oz: The love of Dorothy for Toto
LEVELS
Physical Level: On the physical
level this is the form of instant attraction for someone or
something. It is about learning to love others for who they
are, even if they are quite different from you. This card
represents sweet innocent puppy-love. This is where your heart
explodes open for some unknown reason and you love this person
even though you don’t really know them. It doesn’t
matter what their problems are or what their beliefs are.
You simply love and want to be in this person’s presence.
There is a boundlessly joyful feeling when you are with this
person. You see the light inside the person’s soul rather
than their personal problems and hang-ups. You may be beginning
a new relationship but this is love at the early stage of
emotional development. Take some time to get to know this
person and find out who they truly are separate from the reflection
they represent to you. Remember no one is perfect. Everyone
has flaws inside and we are all healing in some way. You may
be feeling a powerful attraction to this person on a sexual
level. When we recognize someone energetically all of our
charkas open. Including the sexual charka. Just because you
feel attracted doesn’t mean that you have to become
sexually intimate with that person. Look before you leap.
Emotional Level: On this level you realize
that everyone is connected in this game called life. There
is acceptance of others even if they are a different race
or religion. The other person becomes a reflection of some
previously unknown aspect that you are fascinated to learn
about. The other person mirrors an under-developed aspect
within you. This can create a form of infatuation rather than
true unending love. This is the beginning of wanting to merge
with another. Take the time to first learn to love the differences
inside yourself that this person reflects. Emotionally we
have the belief, “the Prince married the Princess and
lived happily ever after”. This is simply the story
line of a fairy tale from when you were a child. Remind yourself
that there are very few prince’s anymore and that you
are not a princess in this lifetime. Take a look at your true
gifts and talents and you will find out that those gifts can
be more fabulous than any fairy tale if you let yourself explore
the reality you are creating for yourself. True life is more
exciting than any fiction. From this place look at the lessons
of love and infatuation and see that you are still trying
to emotionally mature yourself through learning to merge energetically
with others. Give yourself permission to let that be alright.
But stay conscious to the potential pitfalls of the illusions
of love.
Spiritual Level: On this level the Lovers
card taps you into the beliefs that you had as a child. Remember
how it was when you believed that you could feed the world
and no one needed to go hungry. You knew you could make a
difference in the small things you did, such as; picking up
cans and garbage, saving aluminum foil, and helping with school
projects to raise money. Here you were still innocent and
idealistic in your beliefs. You could see the hand of God
moving through everything in your life and you felt blessed.
You felt that as an individual you could make a difference.
You were acting from your spiritual self and your highest
personal and social values. This is a good thing. Look to
see where you are choosing to rekindle that positive energy
and see how to direct it outward into your life. Love is infectious.
When you get excited about a dream you can inspire others
to get motivated also.
INTERPRETATION
The Lovers astrologically indicates the sign of Gemini. That
is because the energy of Gemini loves to think about duality
and differences. Nothing in life makes you think more than
love. Love is all around and you are on a journey to find
out if someone sees you as special and worthy of love This
is a time where you are noticing the dualities and balance
that comes from opposites. Gemini is about the twins. With
twins you can have them be very much alike or not anything
alike. This is the conflict when this card shows up. Let’s
admit it. You have probably fallen in love with someone. You
think they are just like you when actually they are going
to end up being very different from you. We learn about love
by attracting the opposite type person to us in order to get
to know shadow aspects inside.
When we are younger we will tend to fall in love with someone
that our parents don’t approve of. The reason is you
are exploring who you are by the people you are attracted
to. Parents don’t like when they see someone who is
so opposite to their perfect child. They think you will become
like the person you are falling in love with and that frightens
them. And they are correct. You are exploring your shadow
through loving someone who is very different from you.
With this card, you are full of innocent bliss and not thinking
very clearly. You are smitten with the love bug. You don’t
understand why others might disapprove of this person. You
are only seeing the positive in them. You cannot see the negative
because you are only at the beginning of seeing your shadow.
When you were a child in school, you learned about people
by associating with those around you. This was a time to learn
how to accept and love others even if they were different
from yourself. Maybe you went for the underdog at school.
You wanted to be their friend. Maybe you liked the popular
group. They made you feel important and part of something.
Each was a road to understanding who you were and a way of
belonging and identifying with others.
As a child, you become infatuated with people, circumstances
and things. You believe that you must have this thing, person
or circumstance in order to feel good about yourself. This
is an innocent, playful, sweet time in your life where you
believe that others love you and you are idealistic in your
views of the world.
This card is also about finding balance between your male
and female sides by seeing love around you and realizing your
connection to all things. This card helps you to learn to
be conscious through your relationships. It is a time of giving
love and feeling received by others.
With the Lovers card, you are in a time where you are being
drawn magnetically to what you are not in touch with inside
yourself. You are drawn to people and things that help you
to love previously unknown aspects within. Parts that you
cannot access internally will become externalized so you can
heal and grow through understanding the aspects of duality
within.
You are all aspects inside, both male and female. In learning
to love others, you become more loving and open to the many
diverse aspects of life.
Wars would not happen if everyone was able to love all dualistic
aspects within. By learning to love others you become more
whole and healed. In loving others you learn to love the aspects
they represent to you internally.
Getting the Lovers card can mean that you are in the beginning
stages of falling in love. Remember though, it is just the
beginning. This is an idealistic form of love. You are not
really seeing who this person truly is. You are seeing a reflection
of what you want projected onto another.
When you get this card it is a good idea to look to see if
you can see beyond your own dream to the truth of this person’s
behavior and life.
If you are in a relationship it is important to notice if
you can actually see the other person’s shadow. If you
cannot find anything wrong with this person, and they appear
to be perfect, know that is a warning that you are missing
something. No one is perfect. Everyone has their faults. Even
teachers on your life’s journeys have had personal challenges
in certain areas of their lives.
If you want to believe that this person is the answer to all
your problems or has all the answers, you are deep into the
illusion of this card. It is then a good idea to step back
until you can separate what is real from what is your illusion.
This card is about learning to love and to open. It is good
to allow that to happen. However, check to see if this person
is honoring the great gift you are giving them by opening
your heart also.
When this card shows up it can mean that you are giving too
much of your self away to others because of a deep internal
need to be accepted. When you love yourself and open, it is
easy for others to love you back.
You want to share your true self with another. This is a good
thing, so first share that love you feel with yourself by
deeply appreciating you.
When you are fulfilled then others will want to bask in the
light of who you are.
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